Can’t sleep? Try these 8 tips…

Sleep was chosen as the theme of Mental Health Awareness Week 2020 because millions of people report problems with sleeping – and evidence shows that this can have a significant impact on mental health.

If you’ve been finding it harder to get to sleep (or to stay asleep), then you may have noticed changes to your mood and productivity levels. Some people have also reported having longer, more vivid dreams since the start of the pandemic, causing them to feel tired when they wake up.

Although sleep issues can be frustrating and difficult to deal with, it’s important to remember that you are not alone. During lockdown, #cantsleep was seen trending on Twitter, as people came together to express their frustration at not being able to get a decent night’s sleep! However, the good news is that there are a few things you can try, to increase your chances of getting some proper rest.

Why is the pandemic affecting my sleep?

The impact of stress hormones on sleep

Everyone has different sleep cycles, and different factors that may affect their sleep. However, something that many of us find difficult to deal with is uncertainty. Generally, we like to have a reasonable idea about what the future may hold, and we get security from knowing that important things are taken care of – like our finances and our family. At present, many of us will be facing uncertainty in these areas, which can lead to feelings of stress and anxiety. This may include racing thoughts and a feeling of restlessness, which can stop the body relaxing enough to either fall asleep, or stay asleep. Rather than getting the urge to sleep, you may find yourself pacing back and forth, or cleaning your oven at 3am!

If you’re feeling stressed or anxious, then you may also find that you are able to get to sleep, but that when you do – you have long, intense dreams and still wake up tired. Currently, the question of ‘why we dream’ is still largely unanswered, but one common theory is that dreams are the body’s way of trying to work through difficult or complicated experiences of emotions. So, if you’re feeling particularly worried or anxious about the future, then these fears may manifest into disturbing or unsettling dreams – some of which may be recurring. The reason that we may wake up feeling tired when this happens is because during the dream phase of sleep (also known as REM), our stress hormones remain elevated. These stress hormones (such as cortisol) are involved in the fight or flight response that we feel when we’re afraid, and make it quite difficult to rest and relax!

The impact of cabin fever on sleep

“Cabin fever” is the term people use to describe how they feel when they are going stir crazy indoors and feel like they need to get out. We usually feel like this when we are no longer being stimulated by our surroundings, and/or when we feel trapped in them. This is usually when feelings of boredom and frustration set in, which can really affect our sleep if we take them to bed with us.

You might also find that the things that you associate with “home” outside of the coronavirus lockdown – such as friends/family, leisure activities and rest – have now been replaced by new activities like work and exercise. When this happens, we can enter a new state of “alertness” at home, making it harder to relax when the time comes. You may also find that if you are doing less physical activity throughout the day, then you simply aren’t tired enough to get to sleep at night.

The impact of sleep on mental health

The quality of our sleep can affect our emotions and how alert we feel throughout the day. If your sleep is suffering then you may feel tearful, irritable and/or unable to cope with everyday activities. Some people also experience frustration and/or a low mood, when they cannot give their all to these activities because they are too tired. 

Mark Rowland, Chief Executive of the Mental Health Foundation says, “Sleep is the unsung hero for our mental health. We want to start a national conversation about how we can all sleep better – and uncover the hidden mental health costs of the poor sleep that affects so many of us.”

 

8 tips for a better night’s sleep

1. Create a daily routine

If you’re finding it hard to stay at home during the coronavirus lockdown, then you aren’t the only one. Plenty of us have had to take our usual schedule – which may involve a host of different people and locations – and transform it into a workable schedule which takes place all under the same roof. But, fortunately modern technology has made it possible for us to create a home routine that mimics our old one, as closely as possible. For example, rather than visit your grandchildren every Wednesday, perhaps you can video call them instead, or instead of hitting the gym you can follow a home work-out video online.

By creating a daily and weekly schedule, you’ll hopefully be able to keep yourself busy enough that you’re distracted from any anxious thoughts. Routine is important for maintaining your circadian rhythm (also known as your body clock), which is responsible for things like your sleep cycle, eating patterns and hormone production. If you stick to sleeping and waking up at the same time each day, then you’ll help to keep your circadian rhythm on track, and sleep will hopefully become easier.

It can also be helpful to try and mimic your usual pre-lockdown bedtime routine as much as possible. For example, if you carry out a regular skin-care routine before bed or you tend to read a chapter of a book before turning out the light, then try to stick to these things even if the rest of your daily routine has changed. If you’ve been doing these things for many years, then it’s likely that your body will have begun to associate them with preparing to go to sleep, and still will.

2. Switch all electronic devices off 30 minutes before bed

Electronic devices like smartphones, TVs and laptops emit blue light; a short wavelength which stimulates sensors in the eyes to send signals to your brain’s internal clock. These signals suppress the natural production of melatonin – the hormone which helps you to feel sleepy.

During the day time, blue light is actually very helpful as it can help you to feel more alert and boost your mood and reaction times. Sunlight is the strongest producer of blue light, which is why we feel more productive during daylight hours (usually), and much sleepier once it gets darker in the evenings. But, too much artificial blue light at the wrong times can play havoc with your body clock.

For this reason it’s a good idea to switch all electronic devices off at least 30 minutes before your head hits the pillow, to give your melatonin levels a chance to rise. If you can’t do this, then it’s worth looking into your device settings, as many now have a blue light filter, which can decrease the amount of blue light being emitted.  The other advantage of emitting less blue light, is that it can help make your phone less addictive – even during the day – as many of us are drawn to the blue light.from their screens.

3. Try to move your body every day

Exercise can be beneficial for sleep in a few ways. Firstly, when we are physically worn out, we will often get to sleep much quicker and stay asleep for longer. Exercise also increases the production of endorphins (our happy hormones), which helps to boost our mood and reduce stress. It’s generally much easier to sleep if you aren’t contending with high levels of stress hormones at bedtime, such as cortisol and adrenaline.

Additionally, any sort of exercise that raises your body temperature, can also contribute towards a better night’s sleep (if done at the right time). This could include activities such as a brisk walk, a 10 minute aerobic workout or giving your kitchen floor a good scrub. A good workout can keep your body temperature raised for about four to five hours. After this your core temperature starts to decrease and you may feel sleepy as a result. So, if you aim to do an afternoon workout each day, then you could help to set yourself up for that sleepy feeling around the time that you’re thinking about winding down for the evening and going to bed. Generally speaking, it’s better to avoid an evening workout, as you’ll be heating yourself up very close to the time when you should be starting to cool down in preparation for sleep. However, if you find that the evening time is the only time you can work out, then try having a cool shower afterwards to help bring your body temperature back down faster.

4. Set yourself “worry time” and stick to it

During this period of uncertainty, it’s completely understandable that you may be worried about the future. However, it can help to take charge of that worry by limiting the amount of time you attribute to it. It can be tricky to get rid of worry altogether, especially if it’s unclear when or how a problem will resolve itself. But, by setting yourself allocated “worry time” each day you can start to control how much of your day is affected by it – and hopefully lessen the burden of some of those worries at bedtime.

Try to set yourself two 15-minute worry slots each day where you can set out all your worries and/or anxious thoughts. Some people find that it helps to write them down. Use this time to allow yourself to acknowledge all the things that are bothering you, and identify which of these you can control and which you can’t. It’s important that outside of worry time, you are able to put any worries that you can’t control out of your mind and focus only on the things that you can control. When the time’s up, close your journal if you’ve used one. Or, if you haven’t – imagine yourself putting a lid on your worries and placing them on a shelf, somewhere high up where you can no longer see them. If you find any worries sneaking back in after this point, then picture yourself forcing that lid back down and remind yourself that you can get them out later – during your second worry slot of the day.

Often, we busy ourselves during the day and then when we stop and lie down to sleep at night, our minds fill with worry – and suddenly we’re wide awake! It’s unreasonable to expect that we can just banish all worries altogether in one fell swoop, but by using this set worry time, we can hopefully control when and how we worry, and avoid going to bed with a mind full of racing thoughts.

5. Get some fresh air and sunlight everyday

Sunlight plays an important role in making sure that our circadian rhythm (or our body clock), is working well. Sensors in our eyes detect light and dark in our environments and adjust our body clock accordingly. It can be difficult to spend all day in a dark room and then expect your body to instinctively know when it’s time to wake up and when it’s time to sleep. Although we can’t get outside as much as we’d like to at the moment, you can still help yourself to get as much sunlight as possible by opening your curtains and blinds fully and spending more time in the lighter rooms of your home. This will all help to make the distinction between light and dark much clearer, giving your body clearer signals about when it’s time to wake and sleep.

Scientists also say that sleeping with a window open can help you to sleep deeper and longer, by lowering carbon dioxide levels in the room. This will also prevent you from becoming too warm, as we tend to sleep better when our core temperature is able to drop by a degree or two at night.

So next time, you’re struggling to sleep, considering opening a window – you might be surprised at the difference it makes. Just be sure to have an extra blanket on hand, in case you get a bit chilly!

6. Try not to work or exercise in the same room that you sleep in

When you’re doing the majority of your daily tasks at home, it can be helpful to create some boundaries so that you don’t begin to associate your sleep space with work – as this can make relaxing in it difficult at bedtime.

Try to make sure that you are doing activities such as work and exercise away from your bedroom if you can, as this will help your brain to maintain the association of your bed and your bedroom with sleep.

7. Consider listening to some guided sleep meditation

If the reason that you’re struggling to sleep at night is because you’ve got a lot on your mind and you find your thoughts racing when your head hits the pillow – then you could try listening to some guided sleep meditation. This can help you to stay mindful and is a powerful process that can help you to relax. A soothing voice will often help you to bring your mind to the present moment by focusing on your breathing and visualising being somewhere you feel relaxed – for example, on a beach, where you can focus on nothing other than the waves rolling in.

This may not work for everyone and you may need to experiment with different types of sleep meditation to see which works best for you. Some people have a preference over the type of voice leading the meditation, and the type of visualizations you’ll be asked to do. If you want to test the waters, then YouTube is a great place to find a whole range of guided sleep meditation videos.

8. Keep an eye on your caffeine intake

If you’re spending more time at home, then you may have found that you’re drinking more tea and coffee than you usually would. Whilst you don’t necessarily need to cut caffeine out altogether to get a good night’s sleep, it’s still important to be aware of how much you’re drinking –  and to avoid drinking it too close to bedtime. It might help to give yourself a cut off point; for example no caffeine after 4pm, to see whether this makes a difference to your quality of sleep. Everyone is different and some people are affected by caffeine more than others, so it’s up to you to find out what works best for you.

And finally...

We hope that some of the tips in this article will help you to get a better night’s sleep, but you may also have some of your own ideas. These are unusual and uncertain times, so if you’re not sleeping as well as you usually are, and in turn struggling to be as productive as you usually would be – then don’t beat yourself up about it. Be kind to yourself and do what you can, keeping in mind that this period of uncertainty won’t last forever.

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35 thoughts on “Can’t sleep? Try these 8 tips…

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    Andrew on Reply

    I think the most helpful thing in your article is that I am not alone.
    And that in itself is a comfort to me. As I do have big trouble sleeping. Every night is now a battle, and I am weary of it.
    Because I know how its going to be.

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      Marilyn on Reply

      Andrew you are right . I actually get some better sleep if I have family staying in the house. People rarely mention loneliness except for the very elderly . You can be lonely at any age. It can make you feel very unwell and definitely affects your sleep. I think we should all discuss these things, like loneliness and the resulting depression. This can all lead to ill health. All we can do is try to spend as much time as we can in company. You are not alone in this problem. I wish you good sleep !

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    Debbi Barker on Reply

    Thank you for this. It does help to know the struggle is real. I’ve taken your ideas on board and I’m also going to try and stop worrying about not getting enough sleep in the first place! Having said that, I wish everyone who needs one a fantastic super cosy nights sleep.

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    Adrian on Reply

    Break up negative thoughts patterns with random words, your brain can’t carry a thought when you do this so it’s like cutting your worries into small fragments. If you find yourself drifting back to negative thoughts just jump around your words- break the cycle. I also find getting up going into a different room and write out my feelings helps, it like draining them out. I also compose a letter to my boss, etc Don,t send it!. Come back next day and reread you thoughts. Don,t bottle it up

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    Michael on Reply

    I can’t remember the last time I had a restful nights sleep. I exercise a lot, cycling 20km daily as well as Yoga but my mind is so active that I can’t sleep longer than 6 hours and never wake up feeling refreshed. I push myself to get going.
    This period of lockdown has made things worse as I am worried about when I will find employment again having my last contract cancelled.
    The advice above is the best I have read ever and I will try and adapt the techniques suggested.
    Thank you,

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    Ray on Reply

    I do a series of breathing exercises and fall asleep pretty quickly . However I do have some really weird dreams ( and always have done so).

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    Jane Mellor on Reply

    Many thanks for this. I work in a busy Imaging department at a hospital and it takes a while to wind down. During Lockdown I have been taking my neighbour’s dog for a short walk after work every evening….. only about 45 minutes, and it’s helped get me out in the fresh air and relax. I’ve also started having Twinings ‘sleep’ tea before going to bed, and I’ve been sleeping really well

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    Lesley Stephenson on Reply

    I followed all your guidance and it does work.
    Can’t sleep without window being open but wake up with cv the dawn chorus.
    I also tend to do reading on an evening and listen to classic FM.

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    Diane Flanagan on Reply

    I read an article which said never check the time if you wake up in the night, I’ve been following this advice for about a year now and it’s been a great help. I also told a friend and she can’t believe how much difference it has made.

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    Jarison Criscuolo on Reply

    I live next to provocative aggressive neighbours that regularly bang doors and knock and thump about in the small hours and very early mornings, even slamming the front door.
    I have become aggressive with thoughts of violence, short tempered, totally consumed with my life predicament, unable to even sit in my garden, intimidated by E cigarette smoke and a radio blaring.
    I don’t have the money to move.
    The free holder dismisses all responsibility.
    I have become ill mentally living in my own home because of people that rent next door.
    I have 5 police reports for threats of violence, damage to my car on my driveway and interrupted sleep, despite wearing ear plugs every night.
    What can I do to focus away from the anti social behaviour making me ill?
    I am waiting for my inheritance to move, my parents both died 6 months ago, but this may take years due to a complicated estate.
    I cant have any further evidence of my predicament, or I will not be able to sell.
    I am truly desperate

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      Helen on Reply

      Hi Jarison

      I really am so sorry to hear of your challenges with your neighbours. The Citizens Advice Bureau have some support in this area – check out this link. Age UK also have some information on Statutory Nuisance from neighbours. These two organisations are also used to requests for help where mental health is concerned, so do mention the level of distress it is causing you.

      There also appear to a couple of other organisations who can provide support with this issue. If you Google search “troublesome neighbours uk” it should provide some other places that may be able to help.

      Wishing you all the best.

      Helen

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      Lindsay on Reply

      Contact your local council, they have a department that deals with anti social behaviour where owners are involved especially where there is private renters causing the problem. Keep a log of all “events” and if criminal damage or threats are involved call the Police and log the incident number as well
      Hope this helps

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    Sandy D on Reply

    I usually wake around 3.30am after turning out the light at 11pm. Then my mind starts doing overtime with problems and planning. I switch off my brain by listening to an audio book set on a 30min timer…it mostly works and I’m asleep before the end of that time. If not a quarter of a sleeping tablet!

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    Stephen on Reply

    I’m having very poor sleep in this period. I recently retired and now that I don’t have to get up early in the morning I go to bed very very late but I still wake up at 7 or 8. I am probably getting around 4-5 hours sleep a night. To make things worse, I have In the last 6 months been diagnosed with sleep apnea and use a CPAP device with a mask. Last night was one of the worst since using it. There seemed to be too much air blowing into my nose, and it took what seemed like hours to finally get some sleep. That was after going to bed well after midnight! Needless to say, I am feeling exhausted this morning. Luckily, I don’t have to go to work but I am teaching a pupil virtually at teatime. Does anyone have any suggestions? I am finding it very hard to ‘do the right thing’ and go to bed at a sensible time. I am in my sixties and live alone.

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      Gary on Reply

      Hi Stephen, I’m replying about CPAP machine waking you up. I also have sleep apnea & find it useful buying the cloth masks for the face part as they close off any air escapes. I find they work well for me,because before I bought these the air from my machine was always escaping & waking me up. A pack of 5 is about £25. But worth it to get a good night’s rest.

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      Jacky on Reply

      Re your CPAP machine, do you have the facility to reduce the air flow to a lower level at the beginning of the night. Mine is set at 9 but I can press a button which reduces it to 4 which allows me to get to sleep before it rises to my set level of 9. It does sometimes wake me up with a very dry mouth though. I rarely get more than 5 1/2 hours a night.

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    Margaret on Reply

    I don’t have trouble getting to sleep. But on waking feel overwhelmnd by feelings of anxiety panic and a sense of unreality. These emotions have become worse during Covid. I have been practicing various techniques relaxation., breathing meditation etc. But not having much success.
    I have nothing in particular to be anxious about and now that lock down is easing I should be feeling better. Does any one out there suffering a similar problem.

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    Joan on Reply

    Margaret. I have the same problem, l wake every morning at about 5 and then l lay there with a feeling of dread growing until l. Am almost crying. I have now been diagnosed with anxiety disorder. I have had this problem for a few years now and nothing do seems to help

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    Mike on Reply

    What a great article. I have a real problem with staying asleep. I can fall asleep yet wake up a lot throughout the night. I have not got sleep apnoea which is a relief but I do struggle to get a good restful night sleep. I have an Amazon Echo so I will get some meditation exercises for it to play at night and see if it helps. I wish everyone a good nights sleep and pleasant dreams.

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    Adrian on Reply

    I also have an early waking problem. I have tried to get a full 8 hours by going to bed earlier, but I find I’m waking earlier. It feels like my body clock is telling me “you’ve had enough sleep now”!

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    Rae Russe on Reply

    Many thanks for this, all helpful information. I’ve been a poor sleeper most of my adult life – unfortunately night seems to be when my brain decides it’s time to process things, positive and negative.
    Someone mentioned in the comments about not checking the time when you wake during the night – I’m definitely going to give that a go.

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    Andrew Duncan on Reply

    I have had the windows open all year, that helps but now seagulls are noisy with young everywhere. Stopped working so less tired. Lockdown again so watch alot TV. Going to try stairs a few times today asI am third floor and tidy store room as gives me good feeling when tidy.Try the 4pm caffeine thing as coffee holic, Thanks😁

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    Sue Moseley on Reply

    A very useful article on sleep which I’m sure will be helpful to many people. I’ve never needed much sleep, nevertheless it can be an issue sometimes. Getting outside, walking and gardening very beneficial.

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    Donna on Reply

    I had just had a conversation with my husband when I saw this article. Its good to see im not the only one not sleeping well. I’m 65 semi retired and look after my grandchildren all week. I’m tired enough at night sometime overtired actually. I always read at least one chapter of my book and usually get to sleep quite quickly but not always. I dream every night some dreams are so weird I can’t even describe them.i waken up and feel as if I have been awake all night!!! But I just thank god that I have wakened up to another day. 🙏😁Thankyou all for letting me know I’m not the only one.

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    Mandy on Reply

    I have found this article very helpful and backs up some of the things I have learnt in the last few years. I was shielding as I am a chronic asthmatic. I have recently had to return to work and as I work in a mental health rehab facility I have to wear a mask. The mask is not the problem but breathing in warm air is. This has affected my asthma to the point I was hospitalised in the week. This has affected my mental health so thank you for the tips and reminders

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    Jan D on Reply

    I’ve read the article and going to try out all the tips as my body clock is definitely out of sync and I barely sleep and when I do I have vivid dreams or wake up every 2-3 hrs for the loo !!! Can’t win either way and always feel exhausted !!

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