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We often think of home as bricks and mortar, but in reality, home is a feeling. It’s the comfort of being yourself, the warmth of familiar faces, and the reassurance of knowing you belong. And that feeling doesn’t have to stop at your front door.
Anthropologist Dr Anna Machin explains that humans have always thrived in groups. While we may no longer rely on others for survival in the way our ancestors once did, our deep-rooted need for connection has never gone away. In fact, later in life, having a supportive social circle can become even more important.
That’s where friendship groups like the Oddfellows come in.
The Oddfellows is a not-for-profit friendly society with 91 branches across the UK, offering local meetups that bring people together at similar life stages. These groups provide something many people don’t realise they’re missing: a ready-made community – a friendly, welcoming space where people can enjoy good company, conversation and shared activities.
Across the country, Oddfellows branches collectively organise around 750 events every month. These range from weekly coffee mornings, lunch clubs and games afternoons to monthly activities such as day trips, talks and guided walks. There are also free online events held on Zoom, with around 60 taking place each month, making it easy to stay connected in a way that suits you.
Dr Machin believes that being part of a reliable, welcoming group can create a sense of security that goes far beyond socialising. Knowing when you’re meeting, recognising familiar faces and settling into a comfortable routine all help to create a “home away from home” feeling.
“When it comes to feeling secure, an organised friendship group gives you a huge advantage,” explained Dr Machin. “A supportive group provides a buffer against social isolation and uncertainty.”
She added that the familiarity and routine offered by groups such as the Oddfellows can be especially reassuring later in life, providing people with a dependable place where they feel known, valued and included.
The benefits aren’t just emotional. Research consistently shows that strong social connections support both mental and physical wellbeing. Spending time with people you trust can reduce stress, boost mood and even support the immune system. Some studies suggest that social connection can be just as important for long-term health as diet or exercise.
“So while the Oddfellows can give you a place to belong, it can also provide strong foundations for other areas of life too,” said Dr Machin.
What makes the Oddfellows particularly appealing is its simplicity. You can turn up as you are and take part as much or as little as you like. There’s no pressure, just the opportunity to meet new people, share experiences and feel part of something local and familiar.
If you’re thinking about trying something new, why not start close to home? You might just discover your new favourite place to belong.
To find out more about Oddfellows groups in your area, request a free information pack and local events diary by calling 0800 028 1810, emailing [email protected], or visiting www.oddfellows.co.uk/activities.