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When planning a date, it’s easy for our minds to go straight to those first-date clichés, like dinner and a movie. And while these are nice ways to spend an evening getting to know someone, there are times when you might fancy something different.
However, settling on exactly what you’d like to do isn’t always easy. So, to inspire you, we’ve come up with 17 unique date ideas. From visiting a stately home to taking a cooking class, we hope these can help you plan your next romantic rendezvous.
1. Visit a stately home
Here in the UK, we might not always have the guarantee of great weather for a first date. However, we do have hundreds of fascinating and beautiful historical buildings to explore, and visiting a stately home is a lovely way to spend some time together.
From grand and imposing mansions to dinky, quirky cottages with compelling histories, the National Trust looks after some of the most spectacular buildings in the country, so check out their website to find some near you. Alternatively, you could read our article: 14 stately homes to visit across the UK.
While visiting a historic site can be a great date for a rainy day, many of these houses have gorgeous gardens perfect for a romantic stroll – so this date can be enjoyed throughout the year.
2. Go rock climbing
If you and your date have a sense of adventure and like a challenge, why not go rock climbing? Rock climbing is exciting and enjoyable – plus, hanging from a wall as you figure out where to grab next is a unique way to get to know one another!
Rock climbing is also an excellent workout for the mind and the body, so this date has many advantages. Unless you both have prior experience, you’ll want to start your climbing adventure at an indoor centre, where you can hire equipment and get plenty of instruction.
You can find your nearest indoor climbing centre on the BMC website.
3. Listen to live music
Going to a live music event is another great idea for a date. Music has the power to bring people together, and watching it live can be uniquely affecting. Plus, because there are so many live music events, you’re sure to find something that appeals to you both.
You can get tickets to a big-name act, head to a pub to discover local bands, go to a classical music concert, or attend an event at your local park. Listening and watching live music together also takes some of the pressure off your date, as you won’t need to fill the time with constant conversation, but can still feel connected.
4. Take a cooking class
If you and your date are passionate foodies and want to do something that feels more special than heading to a restaurant, why not take a cooking class together?
Whether you consider yourself a cooking pro or can barely boil an egg, there’s a cooking class for all abilities and taste preferences – and doing it with your date can make it even more enjoyable.
Not only will you learn new culinary skills as you get to know each other better, but you’ll also get to sit down and enjoy a delicious meal together afterwards.
You can check out some of the best cooking classes across the UK in our article here.
Want to get a bit of practice beforehand? We host several cooking classes and live tutorials over on Rest Less Events. Use the button below to find out more.
5. Visit a novelty museum
Visiting a museum or gallery together can be a fun and informative way to spend time with someone, especially if you’re both into art, history, or science. But if you’re just getting to know each other and aren’t entirely sure of one another’s interests yet, why not visit a novelty museum?
The UK is packed with small, unique, and bizarre museums that can be great fun to explore. From Cornwall’s Museum of Witchcraft and Magic to the Dog Collar Museum in Leeds and London’s Cartoon Museum, you won’t be far from a novelty museum, wherever you are.
These are unique dates that can be as funny as they are fascinating – and you might even come away with a great set of photos.
For more museum inspiration, why not check out our articles: 14 UK museums you won’t want to miss and 7 weird and wonderful museums to visit in the UK?
6. Go to the theatre
Going to the cinema is a classic first-date activity, but heading to the theatre to see a play or musical is far more original. You can both get dressed up and enjoy yourselves – plus, during the interval, you can chat and get to know each other over a drink rather than sitting in the dark in silence the whole time.
It’s also a great way to support local arts, and watching real actors perform in person can be more memorable than heading to the cinema. Perhaps you could see a comedic play, a musical, or a ballet.
You can check out what’s on at theatres near you at What’s On Stage. Or, for some more inspiration, why not read our article: 16 of the most popular theatre shows?
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7. Go on a street food tour
Another great date idea for food lovers is to go on a street food tour of your city.
If you don’t have a regular street food market in your town, you could head to a local farmer’s market or find out when and where some pop-up food vendors might be opening. Strolling from stall to stall, trying delicious new dishes, and supporting local vendors while chatting is a date you’ll probably remember for a long time.
There are plenty of ideas for places to visit in our articles: 11 destinations that every foodie should visit and 10 of the best vegan-friendly UK cities.
8. Take a dance class together
Taking a dance class together can make for the perfect date.
Before a first date, you might feel some pressure and maybe even worry that you can’t keep the conversation going. But by going to a dance class, you can keep the energy up and enjoy laughing together – and if you make mistakes, that’s all part of the fun. Plus, everyone likes music, and most of us can enjoy dancing (even if we’re not very good at it!).
Between learning something new, laughing at any missteps, and enjoying the music, any nerves will hopefully disappear, and you’ll end up on a fun and unique date.
If you’d like to brush up on your dance skills before a date, you might like to check out some of the best online dance classes or learn about 9 dance styles from around the world.
9. Go on a city day trip
Many of us don’t take full advantage of where we live, so exploring your city in a whole new way can help you discover a new side to your home town and forge a meaningful connection with your date.
Why not become a tourist in your own city for the day and see the sites and historical attractions that visitors flock to? Museums and monuments can be good places to start.
If you’ve already been on a few dates together and feel comfortable in each other’s company, you might like to think about taking a day trip to another nearby city. Sharing new experiences and discovering new places can go a long way in bringing you closer.
For some inspiration, check out our article: 16 of the best UK city breaks. Alternatively, you can search for UK staycation holiday deals below.
10. Make pizza
If you’re comfortable enough to have a date at home, then a great way to spend some quality time together – and enjoy a delicious, low-key meal while you’re at it – is to make pizza.
Being in your kitchen (or your date’s kitchen) is an easy way to break the ice, and making some DIY pizzas over a glass or two of wine is a fun, laid-back way to get creative while enjoying some stimulating conversation.
You can make your pizzas for yourselves or each other, challenge your date to come up with the tastiest and most inventive topping combinations, or even go all out and make dough from scratch.
If you’d like some tips, check out our article on how to make the perfect pizza at home.
11. Go antique hunting
If you love digging around antique shops, why not introduce your date to the joys of finding second-hand treasures and spend an afternoon wandering around antique shops, markets, or fairs?
From furniture and clothes to jewellery and crockery, flea markets and antique fairs are a haven for vintage enthusiasts – and they’re also a great way to shop more sustainably. You don’t even have to buy anything – just looking and chatting can be the best part – but you might end up with a special memento from your day.
You can check out some upcoming antique fairs and flea markets on this antique fairs calendar from Antiques Atlas, or you could read our guide to buying and selling antiques.
12. Learn a new skill together
Whether it’s painting or photography, learning isn’t only a fun way to improve confidence and boost wellbeing, but it’s also a great way to gauge your compatibility with your date.
You don’t have to invest in a lot of expensive equipment to try something new – and you don’t need to go to an in-person class, as there are countless creative skills that you can learn from home.
Even if neither of you is very good at whatever new skill you try, you can bond over that and laugh at your efforts. And if one or both of you discover that you’re a bit of a natural, you might have found a new hobby to enjoy.
If you’re looking to take a class from the comfort of home, over on Rest Less Events, we have everything from crocheting to lino printing.
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13. Volunteer together
One unique and wholesome idea for a date is to volunteer together. Helping others is the perfect way to get to know each other without putting any pressure on your date, and knowing you’re doing some good can make it feel all the more meaningful.
You could volunteer at your local shelter or soup kitchen, or, if you’re both animal lovers, spend some time at your local animal shelter or sanctuary. Alternatively, if you live close to each other, you could join a community beautification project. Or, if you’re interested in the environment, why not volunteer for a nature charity or service?
For more ideas, check out our volunteering section, or search for voluntary roles below.
14. Go hiking
If the weather’s okay, there are few better ways to enjoy spending time together than going for a hike. Setting off on a walk always feels like the start of a new adventure, and knowing that it could be the beginning of a new relationship makes it even more exciting.
There are many walks and hikes you can enjoy together. You can head to your nearby woods and hit a nature trail, visit a country park and pack a picnic, or if you’d rather stay local and keep things a bit more low-key, you could even head off on a city, historical, or cultural walk around your hometown.
Check out our article on 11 different types of walks to enjoy this summer for more inspiration.
15. Go wine tasting or on a brewery tour
If you or your date enjoys a nice glass of wine, wine tasting can be a fun and romantic way to spend some time together. You can take an organised wine tour, visit a local winery by yourself, or even join a wine-tasting class near you.
Alternatively, if you and your date prefer beer, why not try a tasting or visit a local brewery? You might get lucky with timing and find out about a beer festival in town, and because they often feature local bands, food stalls, and art vendors, too, there’ll be plenty of ice-breakers along the way! Just be sure to check your date drinks alcohol first.
16. Go cycling
Just like walking, cycling together is an enjoyable way to get to know each other – and it’s especially helpful if you feel nervous about making conversation.
Cycling requires minimal small talk, and by the time you stop for a break, you’ll probably feel much easier in each other’s company.
If it’s a first date, it’s probably a good idea to stay local and cycle around your city or on a nearby cycle path – and you can always rent bikes if you don’t have one.
It’s always good to have a destination in mind, whether that’s cycling along a particular route or to a specific pub or cafe. Plus, if the date goes well, there’ll be plenty of opportunities to stop along the way and extend the experience.
17. Sit beneath the stars
If you’re looking for a fun and unique date idea that’s also incredibly romantic, what about doing some stargazing?
Something is awe-inspiring about staring up at a vast night sky filled with glittering stars – and sharing that experience with your date can be especially meaningful and memorable. You could even have dinner under the stars on a warm evening – and even if it’s not, perhaps you could light a fire and grab a few blankets.
For tips on what to look out for, have a look at our introductory guide to stargazing.
If you’d rather stick to a daytime date for now, you can still enjoy stargazing by heading to a planetarium and gazing at the entire solar system together. As a bonus, you’ll probably learn a lot while you’re there, too.
Final thoughts…
Whether it’s your first date or your 100th, there are many unique and enjoyable activities to take the pressure off. From making pizza and exploring stately homes to visiting novelty museums and volunteering together, there’s hopefully something for everyone on this list.
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Do you have any other ideas for a great date, or have any of our suggestions inspired you? We’d love to hear about your dating experiences in the comments below.
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