Meeting people and making new friends can be tricky. But thanks (in part) to the internet, there are plenty of different ways to connect with others – both online and in person.
Gone are the days when you could only meet new people at parties, or through friends, family, or work. Now, there are countless ways to interact and connect with others, it’s just about finding the way of socialising that feels most natural to you.
With that said, here are nine different ways to meet new people…
1. Networks, clubs, and events
If you’re keen to meet new people, you could consider becoming part of a club or group, or attending some one-off events.
Not only will attending clubs and events help you come into contact with like-minded people, but sharing a particular interest can help alleviate some of the anxiousness and awkwardness you might feel about starting conversations and making friends.
It’s worth checking out the Oddfellows; a network of friendship groups across the UK. The Oddfellows supports almost 40,000 members across its 99 UK branches, many of whom are retired or older adults. They’ve got lots of daytime activities available, as well as volunteering opportunities.
Their local branches put on free or inexpensive taster events, such as walks, talks, quizzes, and afternoon teas, as well as online open days – to show newcomers the benefits of joining a friendship group. There’s something for everyone, and they’re always ready to welcome new members along.
Plus, every September the Oddfellows put on extra events up and down the country during their Friendship Month.
You can find out more about what to expect at an Oddfellows social event and request a free information pack below.
Alternatively, you may find Rest Less Events a fun way to virtually meet new people. Hosting over 100 virtual events each month, there’s everything from talks and workshops to courses and live performances. Our community events are particularly good opportunities to chat with other members and forge new friendships. Why not check out the art history group, join the lunch club, or be inspired in the feel good club?
2. Neighbourhood hubs
If you’d like to become more established in your local community and get to know your neighbours, it’s worth downloading the free app Nextdoor to connect with people in your area.
Nextdoor is a great way to meet other locals and feel connected, and it also keeps you informed about what’s going on in your area. You can arrange a street party, plan barbecues for your building, or simply swap local knowledge, recommendations, and safety tips.
Even if you don’t make any particularly good friends this way, it’s always nice to be on friendly terms with people who live near you. It’s comforting to know there’s someone happy to help out should you need it; whether that’s feeding your cat, watering the plants while you’re away, or picking up your post.
Another neighbourhood hub that you might like to check out is Near Neighbours, which aims to improve communities by bringing people together and developing relationships in multi-faith areas.
3. Meet people through your dog
If you’re a dog owner, you might be interested in using social apps like Pawmates. Pawmates is a service designed for both dogs and their owners…because dogs need friends too, of course! The app is location-based, so you can connect with other dog owners in your local area.
It’s also worth seeing if any groups already meet regularly in your local park or common. You can often find out about these on local noticeboards, via Facebook groups, or by word of mouth if you stop to chat with people when walking your dog.
If you can’t locate a group, you could consider starting one yourself. Remember, it doesn’t necessarily have to be a large group. Chances are that you’ll bump into a few of the same people while you’re out walking, so why not ask one or two of them if they’d be interested in a regular meet-up for your dogs to play?
Dog walking is a convenient way to meet new people while giving you the chance to stretch your legs. Plus, seeing your dog playing with their new friends is an added bonus. You can read more in our article: The health benefits of dog walking.
4. Facebook groups
If you’re on Facebook, it might be worth joining one of the many groups that exist there.
Joining a Facebook group makes it quick and easy to communicate with other people over shared interests. Usually, there’s no pressure to meet up either, as you can still share tips, advice, and stories about your hobbies and interests without leaving the comfort of your home.
You can create a Facebook group to chat about absolutely anything — your family, books, films, etc. – or you can join one of the many existing groups.
There are popular Facebook groups for house plant growers, people who share cleaning tips and tricks with each other, people who are gluten-free…the list is pretty much endless. There are over 10 million Facebook groups out there, so you’re sure to find one about something you love.
Facebook groups are also an effective way to build a community around a brand, product, cause, or idea. Some examples of the biggest and most active Facebook groups are DIY On a Budget, Dogspotting, and Weird (and Wonderful) Secondhand Finds That Just Need To Be Shared – so you can see just how diverse Facebook groups are!
A group where members all pretend to be ants in an ant colony famously has over 1.5 million members…so, if you’re looking for a place to be playful and enjoy some light relief, you’ll find that on Facebook too.
5. Volunteering
There are lots of reasons to get stuck into volunteering. It can help us to develop a fresh sense of purpose, learn new skills, give back to our communities, and build confidence. But, one benefit that many people don’t always consider is that volunteering can help us connect with others.
Volunteering puts us in situations where we can meet new people who have similar passions to us. Being united in a common pursuit and working towards specific goals with others can help us develop meaningful relationships.
To search for volunteering opportunities and get inspired, check out the volunteering section of our website.
6. Online dating
If you’re looking to meet a potential romantic partner, there are dozens of dating websites and apps just waiting to be joined. Online dating is bigger than ever, with around four in 10 couples now meeting this way.
Online dating has never been so convenient. You can take the time to get to know someone via phone, email, or video chat before actually meeting them in person and connect with countless people you otherwise likely never would have crossed paths with.
One of the great things about online dating is that there’s a website out there for everyone. There are the ‘big ones’, like Match.com and eHarmony, which have millions of members and cater to people of all ages and backgrounds. But, there are also dating sites aimed specifically at people over 50, like Rest Less Dating.
And then there are the niche dating sites – for example, those aimed specifically at vegetarians and vegans, animal lovers, and people who love nothing more than muddy country walks.
So, if you’re curious about dipping your toes into the online dating pool, why not give it a try? Even if you don’t find someone you spark romantically with, who knows…you might still make a new friend.
To find out more about virtual matchmaking, check out our beginner’s guide to online dating and our tips for staying safe while online dating.
Note: It’s important to remember that when talking to someone new online, you should never give out personal information that could put you or your finances in jeopardy. This includes, but is not limited to, your home address and bank details.
While the majority of people use online dating sites to find love or companionship, unfortunately, some use them as an opportunity to scam others. So it’s important to keep any sensitive information private and beware of anyone asking for money – no matter how much you like them.
7. Friendship apps
If you enjoy using apps but aren’t looking for love, why not consider making some new friends online through friendship apps and websites?
Stitch is one of the world’s leading social apps for the over 50s. You can use it to find like-minded people in your area, arrange get-to-know-each-other dinners, find travel companions and exercise buddies, or simply swap messages and chat.
You can meet up with people in person, or, if you’d prefer to remain online, Stitch also offers virtual events, group chats, and online discussion groups.
Bumble BFF is another friendship app that’s used by people of all ages. You can connect with others looking for friendship near you, using filters like age and distance to tailor your search.
Once you’ve read another member’s profile and decided whether or not you have things in common, all you have to do is swipe right to connect. If both parties swipe right, you’ll then have 24 hours to initiate a conversation.
8. Community forums
While joining groups is great for people with specialised interests, many of us want to meet new people in a more general setting and talk about a wide range of topics. Community forums are brilliant places to do this because you can engage with others by sharing knowledge, debating topics, and chatting about anything and everything.
If you haven’t checked it out already, a popular forum that might be of interest to you is Reddit. Also known as ‘the front page of the internet’, Reddit sees millions of visitors every day. It’s an exciting arena to debate current affairs, share jokes and ideas, vote on polarising topics, and reply to threads in the countless different sections of the site (these are known as ‘subreddits’).
There are also plenty of more specialised online forums based around interests including gardening, cooking, DIY, travel, and reading – just to name a few. To find more niche forums, simply Google your area of interest along with ‘community forum’ and see what comes up.
9. Support groups
Meeting new people doesn’t always have to be in the interest of finding new friends or a romantic partner. In fact, it can also mean finding people to support you if you’re going through a difficult time.
Whether you’re struggling with anxiety, depression, loneliness, bereavement, or any other issue, there are lots of support groups out there to help. Some provide online or telephone support, but many groups meet up in person – and being able to speak face-to-face with people who’ve had similar experiences to you can be very therapeutic.
If you want to see what types of support groups are available, have a look at these NHS-recommended services. Mental health charity Mind also provides guides to help support people and has its own online community Side by Side, where you can connect with others in a safe space. You can listen, share, and be heard – all without judgement.
If you’re caring for an elderly or sick relative – or supporting a loved one with a mental health condition – you might like to consider joining a support group for carers. Carers UK offers both online support and in-person, local support – you can find groups near where you live, here. Age UK also provides local support for carers looking after loved ones with dementia.
If you can’t find a support group in your community that meets your needs, you could always consider starting your own. Even if you don’t currently know anyone who’s gone or going through the same experiences as you, there’s nothing stopping you from building your own network of support.
Setting up a support group can be an incredibly rewarding thing to do. However, when starting out, it’s worth bearing in mind that you can’t help everyone. The broader your support group, the more difficult it can be to help other members understand their similarities and connect in a meaningful way.
Some people find it helpful to seek professional assistance before joining a support group – for example, from social service workers, doctors, therapists, or members of the council. People like this might be able to help with things like providing referrals to your group or helping you find a practical meeting venue.
You’ll also need to think about any expenses, how you’ll let people know about your group, and what group guidelines you want to set out.
To find out more about starting a support group, have a read of this informative guide from UK charity Adfam.
Final thoughts…
We all know how important it is to feel connected. And many studies show that interacting with people, even on a shallow level, helps to boost our well-being and contributes to a better sense of belonging.
With the development of technology and the internet, as well as a little added human resourcefulness, we’re no longer limited to the same old methods of meeting new people.
By expanding the ways you meet new friends, romantic interests, and supportive networks, you’ll also expand the variety of people that you meet – helping you to find new adventures and adopt new perspectives.
For more ideas on how to build new connections, why not read our article: 12 ways to make new friends? And if you’re happy meeting people in a virtual setting, why not check out Rest Less Events?
How do you meet new people? Do you have any tips and tricks to share? We’d love to hear from you in the comments below.