Self-care is particularly important during the winter months when the short, dark days can take their toll on our mental and physical health.
There can be lots to enjoy about the changing seasons – for example, snuggling down under a fluffy blanket with a good book, or enjoying some hearty comfort food. But, we’re also more likely to catch colds, and to suffer from a low mood due to feelings of isolation and a lack of daylight.
While it can sometimes feel difficult to put ourselves first, treat ourselves, or show ourselves love – doing so can help us to be the best version of ourselves, both mentally and physically.
So, if you’re in need of a boost this winter, or are after ideas to help you make the most of the colder days, here are 33 different ways to be kind to yourself over the next few months and beyond.
33 self-care ideas to boost your mental and physical health this winter
1. Start a journal. Even if you only write in it for a few minutes, once or twice a week, journaling is a great way to process and offload any strong emotions, check in with yourself, and reflect on different events.
Have a read of our article, The power of journaling as a life habit, to find out how to get started.
2. Treat yourself to a new pair of cosy pyjamas or warm socks. Few things are more comforting in winter than snuggling up at home and keeping warm.
If you’re not sure where to look, M&S is a good starting point as they do a great range of pyjamas, cosy socks, and winter warmers for both men and women.
3. Light a scented candle. Candles can make a charming and relaxing addition to any home, and you can also find them in almost any scent, size, or colour.
Check out the huge range of candles available on Amazon.
4. Enjoy a mulled wine or cider. Mulled wine and cider are delicious drinks to be enjoyed throughout winter – not just at Christmas!
If you’ve never had a go at making your own mulled wine or cider, why not try it out this year? Not only can you get the flavour exactly how you like it, but your home will be filled with scents of cinnamon, citrus, and cloves.
For mulled wine, you could try our recipe, or for mulled cider, check out this recipe from BBC Good Food.
5. Get some exercise. No matter what time of year it is, exercise is great for boosting our mental and physical health.
If you’re in need of some winter fitness motivation or inspiration, have a read of our article, 11 fitness motivation ideas for winter, or visit the fitness and exercise section of our website.
You might also like to check out our Rest Less Events platform, where there are a huge range of different exercise classes to join. Why not sign up to Pilates, Tai Chi or an Afrofusion Dance Fitness class?
6. Decorate your home with seasonal colours and accessories. Perhaps you could purchase some new cushions or throws in deep, rich winter colours. You might also like to consider getting some winter flowering plants or putting up fairy lights.
When we’re spending more time indoors, these little touches can help us feel more positive about the space we’re in – plus decorating can be fun!
Our article, 8 ways to make your home cosy, has some more ideas.
7. Stay hydrated. Remembering to keep our fluids topped up during the winter can be more difficult because we aren’t losing as much through sweat (and because a nice cold glass of water is generally much more appealing in summer).
But, we still need to drink between six and eight glasses of fluid each day. Check out our article, 11 tips for staying hydrated and why it’s important, for inspiration.
8. Create a winter reading list. The colder months make for the perfect time of year to hunker down and catch up on some reading – and a good book can offer you a chance to relax and unwind.
Our article, 17 books for your winter reading list, will hopefully help to inspire you. The books, literature, and reading section of our website has plenty of other ideas too.
You might also like to consider joining the book club or short story club over on Rest Less Events.
9. Invest in a good moisturiser. Many of us will experience dry skin during the chillier months of the year, so keeping your skin as hydrated as possible is important.
If you’re unsure what kind of moisturiser to go for, have a read of our article; 10 of the best moisturisers for mature skin.
10. Birdwatch. If you’re looking for a peaceful way to spend a few moments (or hours) of the day, you could consider birdwatching.
Once you start looking for them, you’ll notice that birds are everywhere – in gardens, parks, and out of your window. If you’re lucky enough to have a garden, you might want to try adding a bird feeder or bird bath to attract more wildlife.
Check out our article, 11 ways to make your garden more wildlife-friendly, if you’d like some more ideas.
11. Create a vision board. Winter marks the end of the year, and the start of a new one, which is a great time to start thinking about your goals for the year ahead.
Creating a vision board is a great tool for helping you to visualise and realise your goals. It also acts as a daily reminder of what you’re aiming for. You can find out how to create an inspiring vision board in our detailed guide.
12. Complete a jigsaw puzzle. Jigsaw puzzles are a fun way to spend a few hours and keep your mind occupied, but relaxed. There are many surprising benefits of jigsaw puzzles, which you can read about in our article; 8 health benefits of doing jigsaw puzzles.
If you’re up for a real challenge, why not select a puzzle with 2000+ pieces? Or, if you’d prefer to engage your mind online, have a read of our article; 11 free online puzzles and games to tease your brain.
13. Take a nap. It’s not uncommon to feel more tired during the colder months because the days are shorter, we’re using more energy to stay warm, and we’re also more prone to illness.
Having a 20-minute afternoon nap can be a great way to top up your energy levels. You’ll find plenty of advice on how to improve your sleep quality in the sleep and fatigue section of our website.
14. Practise Hygge. Pronounced ‘hoo-ga’, hygge is a Danish and Norwegian word for creating a warm, cosy atmosphere, and enjoying the good things in life with good people.
A hygge lifestyle includes avoiding multitasking (which can cause stress), wearing comfortable clothing, and enjoying simple pleasures like going for a walk or taking care of your houseplants.
To find out more about how to embrace a hygge lifestyle, have a read of this article from Country Living.
15. Connect with loved ones. December and January are months when lots of people spend time with loved ones and catch up with old friends.
Connecting with our loved ones is important for our wellbeing, and even if you can’t see friends and family in person, you might like to organise a video call.
Winter can also be a good time to try and form some new connections. If you’re looking to meet some people and form meaningful relationships, check out our articles, 11 ways to make new friends and 9 different ways to meet new people, for tips.
16. Sort out your winter clothes and declutter your wardrobe. Life can feel so much easier when you have a well-organised wardrobe and can easily find what you need.
If yours is still filled with summer clothes, consider storing these out of the way until later in the year, so you have easier access to your winter woolies. You could also declutter while you’re at it.
17. Use your fireplace, or watch a fireplace video. There are few things more inviting than a crackling fireplace when it’s freezing outside – so if you’ve got one (whether electric, gas, or wood burning), try to make the most of snuggling up in front of it this winter season.
If you don’t have a fireplace, you can still put on your winter warmers, wrap up in a blanket, and be mesmerised by one of these fireplace videos.
For those considering the benefits of installing a fireplace or looking to make the most out of one, have a read of our article, 10 stylish fireplace designs for every budget.
18. Go for a walk with a warm drink in hand. We often resist going outside in the winter months because of the cold. But a wintery walk can be thoroughly enjoyable if we embrace the chilly air.
Make sure you wrap up warm, then grab some earphones and a warm drink, and head out for a relaxing walk. You might find it useful to read our articles; 10 rewarding activities to do while walking and 14 of the most popular audiobooks.
19. Do something that you enjoyed as a child. We all love a bit of nostalgia from time to time, and taking a trip down memory lane can help you to reconnect with yourself and revisit fond memories.
Perhaps there’s a particular cake you enjoyed making with your parents while you were growing up – or maybe you used to love hula hooping, but haven’t tried it in years. If so, why not give it a go today?
Our article, 10 nostalgic baking recipes, may bring back some happy memories!
20. Learn a new skill. This is a great way to step outside of your comfort zone, discover new opportunities, and gain a sense of personal achievement.
There are plenty of ways you can learn new skills without leaving the comfort of your home. Check out our article; 12 new skills that you can learn from home and how to get started.
For more ideas, why not visit the learning section of our website?
21. Try some new hearty winter recipes. A new season brings new opportunities to try some different recipes that’ll boost your energy levels and keep you warm.
We have plenty of recipe ideas in the food and drink section of our website, including 8 winter nutrition ideas to help boost your health and 12 of the best soup recipes for health and comfort.
22. Fill your home with seasonal smells. If winter had a smell it would probably be nutmeg, citrus, and cinnamon.
One way to fill your home with these glorious smells (other than by making mulled wine or lighting a scented candle!) is to make some stovetop potpourri. One Lovely Life will show you how to do this here.
23. Spend a day doing nothing. Sometimes we just need a day to switch off, relax, and zone out – with no real plans on the cards.
If you lead a busy life, there’s something particularly satisfying about choosing to do whatever you fancy – even if that’s nothing at all! This is a great way to recharge your batteries, gain some much-needed headspace, and focus exclusively on your own needs.
24. Make hot chocolate. Many of us love hot chocolate year-round, but there’s something extra special about drinking it during the winter.
There are also plenty of takes on the classic version that you could try if you want to mix things up a bit – including Kahlua, peppermint, white chocolate, and pumpkin spice.
Check out these 30 indulgent hot chocolate recipes on the Country Living website to learn something new today.
25. Listen to an audiobook. Audiobooks are great to listen to while on a walk, in the car, in the bath, or before you go to bed. They’re great for helping you to relax and keep your mind focused on the present moment.
For ideas of what to listen to, have a read of our article; 14 of the most popular audiobooks.
26. Do some colouring. Adult colouring has become increasingly popular over the years. It allows you to work with lots of bright colours, do something simple yet cheerful with a clear start and end point, and keep your mind focused.
You can download adult colouring pages for free over on the PopSugar website.
27. Wrap up warm and count the stars. Short winter days make for ample opportunities to put your warmest clothes on and head outside to do a spot of stargazing.
Not only will you get some fresh air, but, if you do it alone, you’ll also get some time to clear your mind – or to bond with family and friends if you invite others.
To get an idea of what to look out for, have a read of our introduction to stargazing. You can also sign up to a stargazing course if this is something you’re interested in.
28. Unplug from all electronic devices. We could all do with a break from technology every now and then.
If you can, it’s worth spending a few hours every day, or a whole day every now and then, away from your smartphone and computer. Use it as an opportunity to reconnect with nature, pamper yourself, or read a good book.
29. Take a long bath. If you’re lucky enough to have a choice between having a bath or a shower, you might find that you usually have a shower – because it’s much quicker.
But during the winter, it can be nice to take the time for a long, hot bubble bath and relax with a good book and a hot drink or glass of wine. The downtime can do wonders for the mind and body.
30. Expose yourself to as much light as possible. When the days are shorter, it’s important to make the most of daylight hours as much as possible, and try to get outside – whether for a walk, run, or cycle.
Exposing ourselves to as much natural light as possible, will help to keep our vitamin D levels topped up. Vitamin D is important for things like bone and oral health, and for boosting our mood.
Check out our article on vitamin D to find out more.
31. Bake some treats. Baking is good for the mind, body, and soul because it allows us to express our creativity, develop some new skills, and enjoy a tasty treat at the end.
From warm, gooey banana bread to delicious carrot cake, you’ll find plenty of baking ideas in the food and drink section of our website.
32. Have a movie marathon. If ever there was the ideal time for a movie marathon, it’s winter! When you’ve had a long day or week, it can be incredibly therapeutic to wrap up in a warm blanket, pour yourself a drink, and enjoy a few of your favourite movies.
If you’re stuck for ideas on what to watch, hopefully you’ll find some inspiration in the film and TV section of our website. Our articles, 19 must-see movies and 16 of the best feel-good films to curl up with are a good place to start.
33. Hang out with your pet. Our pets love us unconditionally and will generally always be up for hanging out – whether that’s while having a cuddle, going for a walk, playing fetch, or doing some training.
Whenever we’re having an off day, spending time with our pets can help us to feel better, so planning to spend more time with them can only be a good thing – for them too.
If you’d like to read about the benefits of owning a pet, have a read of our article here, or if you love animals but don’t own a pet, check out our article 13 ways to connect with animals.
Final thoughts...
Self-care can mean different things to different people – but we all need it, whatever form it takes for us. Hopefully, this article has given you a few ideas for ways that you can be kind to yourself this winter, and give your mental and physical health a boost.
While there are many things in life that we can’t control, we can choose to look after ourselves – and the more steps we take to do so, the stronger in mind and body we will be.
Do you have any additional self-care tips that you’d like to share with others? Which tips from this list do you find particularly useful when practising self-care? We’d love to hear from you in the comments below.
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